In the past, most parents would believe that the most important thing in raising a child is to meet the child's material requirements, that is, if he is fed and clothed, everything will be fine for him, and he has fulfilled his parental duties qualifiedly. Nowadays, parents pay more attention to the mental health of their children. . Children need to be seen and respected. The first thing parents should do is to be aware of their own wrong parenting cognitions and communication methods. Only by understanding their own problems can parents make changes. In this book, the author uses psychological knowledge to break down common parenting problems that trouble parents, and teaches parents how to communicate better with their children in specific situations, listen to their children, empathize with their children, and communicate with their children through communication and listening. Establish a solid parent-child relationship and pave the way for parents to raise excellent children.
以前的大部分父母会认为，养育孩子最重要的是满足孩子的物质要求，即让他吃饱穿暖，自己就万事大吉，已是合格地履行父母职责了，现在的父母更加注重孩子的心理健康。孩子需要被看见，被尊重。父母最先应该做的就是觉察自身存在的错误养育认知和沟通方式，只有了解了自身存在的问题，父母才能做出改变。在这本书中，作者用心理学知识拆解困扰父母的常见育儿问题，在具体的情境中教会父母如何与孩子更好地沟通，倾听孩子、与孩子共情，通过沟通和倾听，与孩子建立稳固的亲子关系，为父母养育优秀的孩子做好铺垫。
以前的大部分父母会认为，养育孩子最重要的是满足孩子的物质要求，即让他吃饱穿暖，自己就万事大吉，已是合格地履行父母职责了，现在的父母更加注重孩子的心理健康。孩子需要被看见，被尊重。父母最先应该做的就是觉察自身存在的错误养育认知和沟通方式，只有了解了自身存在的问题，父母才能做出改变。在这本书中，作者用心理学知识拆解困扰父母的常见育儿问题，在具体的情境中教会父母如何与孩子更好地沟通，倾听孩子、与孩子共情，通过沟通和倾听，与孩子建立稳固的亲子关系，为父母养育优秀的孩子做好铺垫。
