Yan Yang has dedicated 12 years to marriage counseling, providing one-on-one services to over 10,000 families. In this book, the author deeply analyzes several key methods she has used to resolve marital problems: finding oneself, learning to express needs and feelings, allowing the other person to release tension, substituting punishment, appropriate praise and recognition, and treating each other as old friends. The core methods of "substituting punishment" and "treating each other as old friends" are particularly refreshing. These methods are a deep reflection and integration of the author's over ten years of professional experience. The book's numerous real-life cases repeatedly demonstrate the effectiveness of these methods, presenting readers with beautiful pictures of transformation from pain to happiness. If you are currently struggling with marital problems or are considering pursuing a career in marriage counseling, this book is highly recommended.
艳阳深耕婚姻咨询行业12年，为1万+家庭提供过一对一的咨询服务。书中，作者深度剖析了自己化解婚姻问题的几个关键方法——找到自我、学会表达需求和感受、允许对方释放、代替惩罚、适当地赞美与认同，以及把彼此当成老朋友。尤其是“代替惩罚”和“把彼此当成老朋友”这两个核心方法，给人耳目一新的感觉。这些方法，是作者对十几年从业经历的深度梳理和整合。书中的一个个真实案例，则一次次证明了方法的有效性，为给读者呈现出一幅幅从痛苦到幸福的美好画面。如果你是一位正饱受婚姻问题困扰的人或者是想从事婚姻咨询的人，不妨读一下这本书。
艳阳深耕婚姻咨询行业12年，为1万+家庭提供过一对一的咨询服务。书中，作者深度剖析了自己化解婚姻问题的几个关键方法——找到自我、学会表达需求和感受、允许对方释放、代替惩罚、适当地赞美与认同，以及把彼此当成老朋友。尤其是“代替惩罚”和“把彼此当成老朋友”这两个核心方法，给人耳目一新的感觉。这些方法，是作者对十几年从业经历的深度梳理和整合。书中的一个个真实案例，则一次次证明了方法的有效性，为给读者呈现出一幅幅从痛苦到幸福的美好画面。如果你是一位正饱受婚姻问题困扰的人或者是想从事婚姻咨询的人，不妨读一下这本书。
