This book is divided into five chapters, each of which provides feasible suggestions for mothers, telling mothers: Only by cultivating children's ability to be independent can children fly higher and farther; look at children with a developmental perspective, and believe that children's future is worth looking forward to; do not indulge children, do not abuse their minds, do not stimulate them with material things, do not use corporal punishment, and do not neglect their children mentally; maintain a scientific and appropriate intimate relationship with children, and be their friends.
本书共分五章，每章都为母亲提出了可行性的意见，告诉母亲：只有培养孩子独立自主的能力，才能让孩子飞得更高更远；要用发展的眼光看孩子，要相信孩子的未来值得期待；对孩子，不放纵溺爱、不心灵施暴、不物质刺激、不动辄体罚、不精神忽视；与孩子保持科学而恰当的亲密关系，做孩子的朋友等。
本书共分五章，每章都为母亲提出了可行性的意见，告诉母亲：只有培养孩子独立自主的能力，才能让孩子飞得更高更远；要用发展的眼光看孩子，要相信孩子的未来值得期待；对孩子，不放纵溺爱、不心灵施暴、不物质刺激、不动辄体罚、不精神忽视；与孩子保持科学而恰当的亲密关系，做孩子的朋友等。
