In college, strong learning ability is not enough to achieve success, but having emotional intelligence is equally important. People who listen well, are able to empathize, are genuine with others, and are willing to invest time in building relationships will go further and thrive better. Tang Wenli, who has a deep understanding of the power of communication, decided to write a book with his friends, summarizing experiences from friends who have strong interpersonal skills, and using real examples of Harvard students in interpersonal management to illustrate. How do they find friends and mentors with similar values, establish long-lasting and deep friendships, and then find new ways to obtain more opportunities; how do they balance academic pressure and peer competition while having a sincere friendship and support network. Tang Wenli shared some "hard skills" and practical information about interpersonal relationships in the book, which can be applied to work and study.
在大学中，强大的学习能力并不足以使人取得成功，而拥有情商同样重要。擅长倾听、能够共情、真诚待人以及愿意投入时间建立关系的人将走得更远，发展得更好。对交流的力量深有体会的唐文理决定和朋友一起撰写一本书，从身边的人际关系处理能力极强的朋友身上总结经验，以一个个哈佛学生在人际关系管理上的真实例子，来说明他们如何寻找价值观相似的朋友与导师，建立起长久且深厚的友谊，进而另辟蹊径获得更多机会；如何平衡好学业压力，同侪竞争，同时又拥有真诚的友谊和支持网。唐文理在书中分享了一些关于人际关系的“硬技能”和干货，运用到工作学
在大学中，强大的学习能力并不足以使人取得成功，而拥有情商同样重要。擅长倾听、能够共情、真诚待人以及愿意投入时间建立关系的人将走得更远，发展得更好。对交流的力量深有体会的唐文理决定和朋友一起撰写一本书，从身边的人际关系处理能力极强的朋友身上总结经验，以一个个哈佛学生在人际关系管理上的真实例子，来说明他们如何寻找价值观相似的朋友与导师，建立起长久且深厚的友谊，进而另辟蹊径获得更多机会；如何平衡好学业压力，同侪竞争，同时又拥有真诚的友谊和支持网。唐文理在书中分享了一些关于人际关系的“硬技能”和干货，运用到工作学
