The book is divided into eight parts, progressively answering the question: How can we help children become passionate, focused, and capable individuals who can grow independently? From building close relationships to stimulating learning motivation, from guiding the development of interests to awakening life in the natural environment, from enlightening bodily wisdom to the growth of parents themselves, the author uses 48 real stories to construct a complete model of "intrinsic motivation growth." In the book, you will see—when children say "I can't," how parents can ignite the courage to "try" with three sentences; how families can achieve a shift in communication from control to cooperation when facing mobile phones, freedom, and boundaries; how children gain focus and resilience in the forest, under the starry sky, and in the soil; and how children learn perseverance and passion on the sports field and at their desks.
全书分为八大部分，层层递进地回答一个问题：如何帮助孩子成为一个有热情、有方向、有能力自我成长的人？从亲密关系的建立，到学习动力的激发，从兴趣发展的引导，到自然环境中的生命觉醒，从身体智慧的启蒙，到父母自身的成长，作者用48个真实故事，构建了一套完整的“内驱力生长”模型。在书中，你会看到——当孩子说“我不行”，父母如何用三句话点燃“我试试”的勇气；当面对手机、自由与边界，家庭如何实现从控制到合作的沟通转变；在林间、星空、泥土中，孩子如何收获专注力与抗挫力；而在运动场与书桌前，孩子又如何学会坚持与热爱。
全书分为八大部分，层层递进地回答一个问题：如何帮助孩子成为一个有热情、有方向、有能力自我成长的人？从亲密关系的建立，到学习动力的激发，从兴趣发展的引导，到自然环境中的生命觉醒，从身体智慧的启蒙，到父母自身的成长，作者用48个真实故事，构建了一套完整的“内驱力生长”模型。在书中，你会看到——当孩子说“我不行”，父母如何用三句话点燃“我试试”的勇气；当面对手机、自由与边界，家庭如何实现从控制到合作的沟通转变；在林间、星空、泥土中，孩子如何收获专注力与抗挫力；而在运动场与书桌前，孩子又如何学会坚持与热爱。
