In this book, Bai Rui proposes the idea that your child is inherently good. Observing countless Chinese parents anxiously trying to solve problems, with children passively responding to demands and trapped in endless internal conflict, Bai Rui proposes the concept of "trust-based parenting": shifting from control to trust, from judgment to acceptance. When parents believe in their children's abilities, intentions, and goodwill, children can learn genuine self-confidence and unleash their self-driven growth. The book progresses step-by-step, from changing perceptions, seeing the child, to five key scenarios of practice, and finally to parental self-growth. It provides detailed explanations of 50 real-life cases, seamlessly integrating complex psychological knowledge with case studies, explaining things in a clear and engaging manner, and incisively pointing out common parenting pitfalls. It also includes actionable tools and exercises to help parents move from "knowing" to "doing," learning how to parent with trust.
本书中，白瑞提出了一个观点：你的孩子本来就很好。白瑞看到无数中国家长焦虑地解决问题，孩子被动地应付要求，陷入无尽内耗，因此提出“信任养育”理念：从控制转向信任，从评判转向看见。当父母相信孩子的能力、意愿和善意，孩子才能习得真正的自信，爆发生长自驱力。全书从改变认知、看见孩子、五大关键场景实践到父母自我成长，层层递进。精讲了50个真实案例，把艰涩的心理学知识和案例融合，娓娓道来，又一针见血地指出了家庭教养的误区，并配有可操作的工具练习，帮助家长从“知道”走向“做到”，学会信任养育。
本书中，白瑞提出了一个观点：你的孩子本来就很好。白瑞看到无数中国家长焦虑地解决问题，孩子被动地应付要求，陷入无尽内耗，因此提出“信任养育”理念：从控制转向信任，从评判转向看见。当父母相信孩子的能力、意愿和善意，孩子才能习得真正的自信，爆发生长自驱力。全书从改变认知、看见孩子、五大关键场景实践到父母自我成长，层层递进。精讲了50个真实案例，把艰涩的心理学知识和案例融合，娓娓道来，又一针见血地指出了家庭教养的误区，并配有可操作的工具练习，帮助家长从“知道”走向“做到”，学会信任养育。
